We once dated a man We’ll phone Lewis* who was, initially, extremely stoked up about “us” â€” disconcertingly therefore. We liked him a great deal, but their over-the-top passion (he insisted I happened to be “perfect”) provided me with pause. Given just exactly exactly how small we knew about one another, it felt like way too much. We stressed Lewis may be the types of person whose feelings run hot and cool. But following a couple weeks, we let go of and let myself be seduced by him. Regrettably, the greater amount of attached i obtained, the less perfect he thought I became.
After 8 weeks, Lewis morphed from a boyfriend that is perfect person who’d suddenly vanish from email and texts for several days, cancel plans, and act coldly .